Meeting Men in Bars

My friend's sister had an epiphany and I'm going to share it with all the women on this site who hang out at bars and clubs meeting (or hoping to meet) nice "boyfriend material" men.

Here it is....
If you're at a club, you should NOT want to dance the night away with that handsome, charming, funny and fun-loving guy who is the life of the party and always out on the town.

Why not? He will undoubtedly try to kiss you by the end of the night. If you let him, he will possibly try to get a little more action--"your place or mine?" If you let it get that far, he will ask for your phone number (out of guilt or his twisted version of respect). Then he will never call you and you will wonder why.

Here's who you SHOULD want to spend the night talking to:

He's moderately cute, but doesn't know it.
He's with a group of friends who dragged him out to the night club, but he's not having the time of his life.
He's not the center of attention.
He's still smiling and putting up with the crowd, because he has to in order to spend time with his friends.
He's approachable.
He's not drunk.
He smiles back at you when you smile at him.
Why? Because he knows that it's hard to meet women at places other than bars and clubs, that's why he allows his friends to take him to bars and clubs.

He also doesn't let his life revolve around bars and clubs, so he'll be up for going to a movie, a play, a musical, or a museum next saturday night when he takes you out on a date. Any bar fly would keep his Saturday nights reserved for going to his favorite bar. He also knows how to make the best of a bad situation. Even though he's in a place that is not his top choice, he's still making the most of it and enjoying quality time with his friends. He also has the social skills to recognize when a girl is flirting with him and he's confident enough to smile back. He's not a wall flower, but he doesn't want to be the center of attention either.

Now go find these guys! Report back here what you discover.