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Weezy says:
1. Hmmmm... How do you know if a woman just wants your money? Can't answer that.. But for sex? How about if she gets the man very intoxicated! *LOL*

Leicrow says:
2. Moving in with the guy really quickly.

3. Not looking for work and expecting him to pay the bills.

4. Blaming everybody else for anything that went wrong (former relationships, why no job etc).

5. Shifting all sorts of responsibilities over to the new boyfriend - examples: picking up her kids from daycare, buying groceries, paying bills, buying her clothes.. etc).

6. Not having any friends that have lasted more than a year, tops.

Eliste says:
7. She doesnt introduce you to her friends as anything other than your name.

8. She doesn't pay for jack. (anything)

9. She bats her eyes and does the "dont you think that would look LOVELY on me?" deal

10. She loses interest when you say "Cant we just order pizza tonight instead of hitting a 4star restaurant?"

11. She loses interest when she figures out the car you drive is your ONLY car.

12. She "forgets" things about you and your life.

Some of those work for both, but all definitely for money.

Bakidd says:
Some obvious ones that I've seen or been told by my friends, mostly money-related:

13. She loses interest when she discovers the BMW parked in front of your apartment belongs to your roommate.

14. You tell her about your experiences working in foreign countries, and she asks whether you were paid in American dollars and what the exchange rate was.

15. You tell her you work at a pharmeceutical company researching a cure for cancer and the conversation turns to how difficult it is to file medical patents and whether you have stock options.

Trygve says:
16. She forgets to untie you afterwards.

17. She often calls you by the wrong name in bed and, when gently reminded, responds, "yeah, whatever. Just get back down there."

18. You take her out to a dinner club; when asked, "Party of two?" she responds, "yeah, at least for the moment--oh, and separate tables, please."

19. She calls you at work to invite you over that evening, but you tell her you have to work late and won't be able to make it until after 8:00. She asks if you know whether any of your friends would be available earlier.

20. You're lying next to her and ask, "do you think we'll ever get married?" She responds: "I don't know what's in your future, but I guess I'd consider it if I met a guy I liked."

Rip Thrillby says:
21. When you stop at an ATM, she picks up your wallet and looks through it to see what kind of credit cards you have. She comments, "This isn't one of those credit-rebuilding cards, is it?" (And later, you notice mysterious charges to Victoria's Secret and WebRx.com on your statements.)

22. When you pick her up in your car, she asks if you bought or leased it.

23. She tells you how great you look in your sports coat, then slyly pulls it open to see the label.

24. She has opinions about Bill Gates' and Alan Greenspan's neckties. "Those whores they're married to should dress them better."

25. She expresses concern about having to go back to "being on her back for a while" to "pay the bill for these new tits."

26. She loves attending conventions, especially those in her own town for industries she's in no way connected to.

27. She complains that the only place to get the "morning after" pill is on the black market. "Morning? Ha! More like, 'afternoon-after.'"

28. She wishes you would "get serious" about investing. "I know a cute guy at Merrill-Lynch I want you to call. He owes me a favor."

29. At a seafood restaurant, she cackles and tells you "this place smells like the dressing room of the Gold Club!" Then, demurely and somewhat abruptly, she puts her hand on your knee and says she bets "it's turning you on."

30. She knows every bartender in town by name, but they know her only as "Giggles."You never notice her having to pay for the layered liqueur shots she loves so well.

31. Asks you why you're "so self-righteous" about not using cocaine or XTC. You should lighten up some.

32. She keeps kneepads and mouthwash in her snakeskin purse.

33. She tells you quite sternly that no one has called her "Tammy" for over ten years now, and they aren't about to start back.

34. Says she's always had good results with just "pulling it out in time. Latex leaves me cold, anyway." This is during the appetizer portion of your first dinner date.

35. She can discuss salary-negotiation issues of famous local free-agent athletes, but forgets what sports they actually play.

36. Uses the phrase, "I hope you don't think this makes me your girlfriend or anything," in moments both private and public.

37. She says she used to confuse the two terms, but now she just remembers that there's a "fella" in "fellatio." "That used to be soooo embarrassing. Hee hee. My friend 'Connie' taught me that one."

38. Tells you most congressmen's offices are "actually kind of chintzy-looking. But the governor's mansion... now that one IS all it's cracked up to be."

39. Says that Porsches make her wheels squeal, but only Jaguars make her "purr." "Not real sure about this Honda yet."

40. When she breaks up with you, she tells you she doesn't mind being another notch on your bedpost, not at all, because you were just "another rung on the ladder, big boy. Just another rung on the ladder." Then she puts her panties on.

Kelly says:
41. Her purse is too small to contain a wallet.

42. She wears a jewelers loupe when you're French kissing.

43. Instead of your name, she cries out, "$$$$$!"

Gimme all weekend, I'll have 900.

Scott says:
44. She's had her belly-button ring replaced with an ATM card reader

45. She gives you her cell phone number, and it starts with "976"

46. Asks if she can "tag along" to your friend's bachelor party after discovering he's a doctor.

47. You're in bed, and you notice a tattoo on her thigh: If you can read this, you'd better be rich!

48. Your HR department asks who the new "beneficiary" is on your new life insurance policy

49. Amount of attention paid TO you is in direct proporation to amount of money paid BY you

50. Adds continual stream of reminders to your hand-held organizer: Buy flowers! Diamonds are nice!

51. You "test drive" a Ferrari just for fun, and the dealer has her measurements on file

52. Greets you with: "hey, is that $5,000 in your pocket or are you just glad to see me... no, really, IS that $5,000 in your pocket?"

53. Mentions how nice it is of your Porsche mechanic to give you this quaint Camry for a loaner.

54. You are stranded on a business trip, because your credit card's been maxed-out with plane tickets to Vail, for the day you left.