Sex Tips To Improve Your Love Life

1. Spur-of-the-moment sex is exciting and fun even if it’s all over in a few minutes. Always be prepared to drop what you are doing when the mood takes you for an unexpected passion session with your lover.

2. Learn to love your body - the less than perfect bits as well as the parts you like best. Realise every body is unique and so yours is special to you. Never compare your figure to carefully posed pin-ups and models that you might see in magazines and books. You should be confident with your own shape.

3. Don’t be shy about reading a sex manual. They are there to be used and give good advice. Surprise your lover with its ideas or read it together trying bits out as you go along. Buy yourself a racy novel and make some time for a raunchy read. Not only will this help to give you some pleasure but it will also provide inspiration and fresh ideas to store in your head for new bedtime activities in the future.

4. Be straight with your mate. Don’t rely on putting across messages in signals like dabbing on sent or shutting the bedroom door to show you’re in a randy mood.

5. Enjoy a raunchy romp in your daydreams to get yourself ready for the real thing. Sit down, close your eyes and concentrate. Imagine the caresses, sounds and smells that get you steamed up.

6. Don’t be afraid to tell your mate when their loving touch is driving you crazy with desire. Remember, they may not always guess that your cries and moans are from pleasure and not pain.

7. Put tender loving care into all your caresses. Don’t just press all the buttons and expect an immediate response. You’re not operating a machine but trying to give physical pleasure - and show your love.

8. Time for long, luxurious loving without any interruption has to be planned ahead. Make a date with your mate for hours of sensuous togetherness alone together.

9. Celebrate the start of winter by making love on the sofa in front of the first fire you light that season. Sip a hot mulled wine to get you in the mood or turn up your energy level afterwards.

10. Always make the effort to greet each other with a tender kiss when you wake up, go to work, come home, go to sleep or meet each other in the street.