It's that Time of Month again

It is that time of the month again, and you feel like slapping him up the side of his head or dragging him off to bed, or both. You simply are not sure. You are not alone in experiencing these feelings. As for the male readers, you might be into sex during her periods (menstruation) or not at all interested. There may also be those who are just plain wondering what the fuss is all about anyway.

In some cultures sex during the “time of bleeding” is considered a taboo, and in others, simply a “dirty act.” In most cultures, the female makes the decision to have sex during her period. Some guys are turned off, and cannot imagine sticking their prized possession into all that blood. In addition, some guys are quite turned on, and find it even more enticing. To each his own.

For those that are curious, here are some basic facts to help you decided if it might be worth the visit.

FIRST and foremost, HIV is transmitted through blood, so the spread of this virus and other STD’s increases tremendously. This cannot be over emphasized enough. USE a condom if you are not in a TRUSTED relationship. No one is worth dying over.

Second, many women experience a lot of discomfort during this time. There are also those who would like to have a truck pull up to the house and after she ties a rope around her uterus, have the truck pull away from the house doing about 60 mph. Yes, it can be that painful. So the point is, if she is uncomfortable, the last thing she may want is your penis poking around in there. However, it has been proven that orgasm does help to alleviate cramping, and yes, even the dreadful headache we might have to endure. Now this is not to say that should you find her curled up in a ball moaning that you whip it out and say “I got your pain pill right here baby.” Not an effective approach. However, there are women who are not aware of this fact, so you may want to copy this article and show her.

Third, being a caring sensitive guy who shows her you do not mind at all, and you find her sexy no matter what is going on, will score points. No doubt BIG points. Be creative. Read on.

Okay, so the actual act of penetration might not be a go, now what? Now might be a time to explore further (no pun intended) the art of a good blowjob. For the ladies, remember how you have been thinking you might want to try that swallowing thing, now is a good time. Everyone benefits, and who knows, you might even forget she even has a vagina? Okay, maybe not.

How about a night of just kissing and touching? Make it as sensuous as you can. Again, drag out your creative abilities. Women’s breasts can be sore this time of the month, and a nice warm oil massage might be fun, and soothing. You rub hers, and she rubs yours (backs).

Many couples find this a time to explore anal sex. (Refer to that article found on this site) You might convince her to try this if your penis just has to be in a nice tight spot. If she puts in a tampon, there will be no mess to deal with. Who knows, you might be on to something new and wonderful.

Okay, so you just cannot keep your penis happy until it penetrates her. If she is willing, and you do not want the mess to deal with, head for the showers. Shower sex can be a hot and steamy adventure. Many women may also want to shower first, insert a tampon and head back to the bed. At this point even oral sex is an option. There are no rules here. Be creative, and feel comfortable with each other.

The bottom line is her comfort. Periods are simply no fun. Being sensitive to a women’s needs at this time is well worth the effort. Just remember, hormones are raging, and we could change our minds at the last minute. So, be prepared to change courses quickly.