
Do all married or commited men still like flirting with other girls?
I have met many married men trying to date me while claiming that they love their families.
What do they expect from me?
been courted by married and sincere-looking men
I know I don't look like the kind of girl who can easily have one-night stand. After having been courted by these married and sincere-looking men, I can hardly have faith in marriage.
Do all men try to seek other girls when the present one is secured? or depends? and depends on what?
Do they want to try different types of girls or try to prove they are still attractive?
difference between "flirting" and "wanting to date"
There is a difference between "flirting" and "wanting to date".. many men AND women still flirt even while in a relationship.. that doesn't mean they pursue anything.
This is not a gender issue.
Why not ask: 'Do all married or committed people still like flirting?'. I can tell you that as many married/committed women flirt as married/committed men.
Believe me.
make you and others feel nice and attractive
To be honest, flirting is not such a bad thing - as long as it is understood to be flirting and no one raises the stakes.
It is a better working environment than back-stabbing and bitterness. It's a bit of fun. It can make you and others feel nice and attractive (positive).
What's wrong with that?
I suppose one could simply 'do a Spock' and talk logically and coldly to everyone. One could pass no comment on anything other than what simply must be said, but saying that you like that necktie or that someone's had a nice hairdo or has a nice scent on is a social thing - unnessessary, but 'nice' and kind.
A social grace.
Of course, flirting can become smutty and innuendo-filled, but this seems to make the whole thing less earnest and more parody - and hence more innocent and silly!