A Ritual for Beginning the Day

Purpose:

To remind yourself that each day represents a brand new opportunity to taste the sacredness of life; a chance to be nurtured by the mystery; a chance to relate lovingly, happily, and even with laughter to everyone around you.

Preparation:

• Have on hand a candle, incense, and matches.

• Prepare a good sound system with slow, meditative music. (Be sure to pick music that will not interfere with your thoughts and that will not run out before the ritual is completed.)

• Sit on a comfortable pillow.

• Wake up fifteen minutes earlier to allow yourself the time to perform this ritual without feeling rushed.

Practice:

• As you wake up, open your eyes slowly, and close them. Then open them again, this time with awareness. Take a few slow deep breaths and remind yourself that you wanted to get up early this morning to perform this ritual.
   

• Get up, put on a robe (make sure you're warm and comfortable), and stretch slowly or shake your body loose from the night's sleep.
   

• Light a candle and stick of incense to begin creating your sacred space.
   

• Play your music.
   

• Sit on your meditation pillow, in a comfortable position. If you are doing this ritual with a partner, sit opposite each other, holding hands.
   

• Relax for a few moments, eyes closed, watching the movement of your breath. When you feel calm and quiet, go on to the next step.
   

• Begin to focus gently and effortlessly on the day ahead, breathing slowly and deeply. Go through the day, envisioning each moment. See if one difficult challenge presents itself (for instance, you have too much to do today and not enough time to do it, or your child is home sick from school). Look at the thoughts as you would look at a passing landscape through a car window. Let the thoughts come and go.
   

• Pay attention to your body. How does your body react to these thoughts? Do you feel any tight spots? A constriction in your chest, stomach cramps, heart palpitations, a simple tensing of the muscles of your jaw and neck? Zoom in on the part of your day's vision that is causing your body pain. This is what you will transform in the ritual. (If you find more than one painful area, take them one at a time. Don't try to do too much at once.)
   

• Keep breathing calmly and deeply. Create a mental picture of the difficult moment that you're dreading in your day to come. (We'll use the example of a stressful project at work, one you have to work on with difficult people.) Now release the image, let it travel through your chakras, allowing the energy of each chakra to transform it.

The Root of Creation

• Let your awareness dwell in the first chakra, in your genitals. Relax your genital muscles into the earth and allow them to feel vibrant, ready, grounded. Here is where you will generate the vision.
   

• See the difficult situation existing inside your first chakra, let it resonate, and begin the transformation.
   

• Say (to yourself or out loud), "There is enough time, money, trust, love, understanding to heal this situation."
   

• Envision the scene filled with a sense of abundance and resolution. Feel that this is already true, that it has happened. You should not feel pressure to make it happen. When you have this vision firmly in mind, go on to the next chakra.

The Flowing Stream

• Let your awareness dwell in your navel area. Breathe into your belly and soften the muscles. See the difficult situation existing inside your second chakra, and surround it with a sea of fluidity and flexibility.
   

• Say to yourself, "I am open to change."
   

• See yourself enjoying the flow of conversation. See everyone finding the place of flexibility in the situation, being open to changing opinions and positions, adapting effortlessly to the currents of energy that your vision carries. When you have an image of the situation transformed by openness and possibility, go on to the next chakra.

The Radiant Sun

• Let your awareness dwell in your solar plexus. Breathe into your solar plexus, feel it expanding, relaxed, and powerful.
   

• See the difficult situation existing inside your third chakra, and infuse it with energy and power.
   

• Say to yourself, "I have all the energy I need to complete this project."
   

• See yourself and all the people in your image feeling alive and on purpose. You make correct choices, you are innovative and responsible. Your authority is respected. When you have an image of the situation transformed through positive action, go on to the next chakra.

The Pulse of Life

• Let your awareness dwell in the center of your chest, in your heart area. Open your chest, relaxing the muscles that surround your heart. Feel your heart opening to receive.
   

• See the difficult situation existing inside your fourth chakra, and surround the image and everyone in it with love and acceptance.
   

• Say to yourself, "I am ready to create a common ground". Don't dwell on successes or failures, or petty antagonism, but simply appreciate what everyone has done so far.
   

• Let yourself see how much happier everyone is when they feel acknowledged, how much more motivated they are toward positive results. When you have an image of the situation transformed by love and acceptance, move on to the next chakra.

The Song of the Soul

• Let your awareness dwell in your throat. Relax your throat, your jaw.
   

• See the difficult situation existing inside your fifth chakra, and allow everyone in the vision to express their truth in a creative way.
   

• Say to yourself, "I enjoy sharing my creative ideas and hearing others express theirs."
   

• See the comical side of the situation. Exaggerate the image if you need to. See everyone dancing a jig around the office, diving off desks, flying paper airplanes over cubicle walls. See thought balloons coming out of their heads, filled with brilliant, witty, outrageous ideas. When your image is transformed by laughter and creative expression, go on to the next chakra.

The Full Moon

• Let your awareness dwell in your third eye, the area between your eyebrows.
   

• Feel the eye opening, taking in the scene with great objectivity. See the difficult situation existing inside your sixth chakra, and envision everyone in the scene feeling connected, integrated between body, mind, and Spirit.
   

• Say to yourself, "I act to realize my vision with intention and purpose. I am clear in my action and make the right choices."
   

• Now you see the big picture; you are no longer bogged down by details or identifying with criticism. You are witnessing the situation but are not lost in it. You have achieved a balance between understanding the context and listening to your intuitive guidance. Move on to the next chakra.

The Open Sky

• Let your awareness dwell in the top of your head. Relax the muscles of your scalp and allow this chakra to open, like a cup waiting to be filled. See the newly transformed situation existing as pure potential inside your seventh chakra.
   

• Say to yourself, "I am ready to receive what I need to heal this situation."
   

• See yourself linked with everyone in your image at a soul level. Your Spirits are connecting. You all have a role to play in this situation, and you all know exactly what needs to be done to move the project further. See all of you surrendering your ego needs ("I know better") to your greater purpose: harmony. You become one Spirit. You respect each other. All is well. When you have created this joyous image, let it go out of the top of your head and into the universe, knowing that it has already been accomplished. Move into your day with calm and certainty of success.

Completion

Review your meditation. Have you created a joyous, harmonious day? Do you feel ready to move into your day with ease and confidence? If you're not quite ready, move through the chakras again to heal any remaining block.

Take a moment to center yourself. Breathe calmly and deeply for a few more moments, and allow yourself to come back to the present moment.